1. Wearing a baby is convenient.
When we carry a baby in a sling, we can walk around freely and not have to worry about negotiating
steps, crowds or narrow aisles with a stroller. Plastic "baby buckets" and removable car seats are heavy and awkward for parents,
babies often look uncomfortable, and they are kept at knee level. A sling can block out excess stimuli when breastfeeding
a distractible baby, and it allows for discreet nursing in public places. A sling can also double as a changing pad, blanket,
or cushion when away from home. I’ve found my sling especially handy when negotiating busy airports with a small child
and several bags!
2. Wearing a baby promotes physical development.
When a baby rides in a sling attached to his mother, he is in tune with the rhythm of her breathing,
the sound of her heartbeat, and the movements his mother makes – walking, bending, and reaching. This stimulation helps
him to regulate his own physical responses, and exercises his vestibular system, which controls balance. The sling is in essence
a "transitional womb" for the new baby, who has not yet learned to control his bodily functions and movements. Research has
shown that premature babies who are touched and held gain weight faster and are healthier than babies who are not1.
Mechanical swings and other holding devices do not provide these same benefits.
3. Babies worn in slings are happier.
Studies have shown that the more babies are held, the less they cry and fuss2. In
indigenous cultures where baby-wearing is the norm, babies often cry for only a few minutes a day – in contrast to Western
babies, who often cry for hours each day. Crying is exhausting for both the baby and his parents, and may cause long-term
damage as the baby’s developing brain is continually flooded with stress hormones.3 Babies who do not need
to spend their energy on crying are calmly observing and actively learning about their environment. Baby-wearing is especially
useful for colicky or "high need" babies, who are far happier being worn, but placid, content babies and children will also
benefit greatly from the warmth and security of being held close.
4. Baby-wearing is healthy for you!
It can be challenging for new mothers to find time to exercise, but if you carry your baby around with
you most of the day or go for a brisk walk with your baby in her sling, you will enjoy the dual benefits of walking and "weightlifting".
A long walk in the sling is also an excellent way to help a tired but over-stimulated child fall asleep.
5. Toddlers appreciate the security of the sling.
Slings are usually associated with infants, but they can be very useful for toddlers as well; most
slings accommodate children up to 35 or 40 pounds. The world can be a scary place for toddlers, who feel more confident when
they can retreat to the security of the sling when they need to do so. Toddlers often become over-stimulated, and a ride in
the sling helps to soothe and comfort them before (or after!) a "melt-down" occurs. It can be very helpful in places like
the zoo, aquarium, or museum, where a small child in a stroller would miss many of the exhibits.
6. Baby-wearing helps you and your baby to communicate with each other.
The more confidence we have in our parenting, the more we can relax and enjoy our children. A large
part of feeling confident as a parent is the ability to read our baby’s cues successfully. When we hold our baby close
in a sling, we become finely attuned to his gestures and facial expressions. Many baby-wearing parents report that they have
never learned to distinguish their baby’s cries – because their babies are able to communicate effectively without
crying! Every time a baby is able to let us know that she is hungry, bored or wet without having to cry, her trust
in us is increased, her learning is enhanced, and our own confidence is reinforced. This cycle of positive interaction enhances
the mutual attachment between parent and child, and makes life more enjoyable for everyone.
7. Slings are a bonding tool for fathers, grandparents, and other caregivers.
Slings are a useful tool for every adult in a baby’s life. It makes me smile when I see a new
father going for a walk with his baby in a sling. The baby is becoming used to his voice, heartbeat, movements and
facial expressions, and the two are forging a strong attachment of their own. Fathers don’t have the automatic head-start
on bonding that comes with gestation, but that doesn’t mean they can’t make up for this once their baby is born.
The same goes for babysitters, grandparents and all other caregivers. Cuddling up close in the sling is a wonderful way to
get to know the baby in your life, and for the baby to get to know you!
8. Slings are a safe place for a child to be.
Instead of running loose in crowded or dangerous places, a child in a sling is held safe and secure
right next to your body. Slings also provide emotional safety when needed, so that children can venture into the world and
become independent at their own pace.
9. Slings are economical.
Slings cost far less than strollers, front-carriers or backpacks. Many mothers consider the sling to
be one of their most useful and economical possessions. Inexpensive used slings can be found in consignment and thrift stores,
and new ones can be bought for about $25 -$50 (U.S.) - not bad for an item many parents use daily for two years or more! A
sling can also be sewn for the price of a length of cotton, some rings and batting; sling patterns are available.
10. Baby-wearing is fun.
Who doesn’t love to cuddle a precious little baby? And when your baby is older, having her in
the sling makes conversations easier and allows you to observe her reactions to the wonders of the world around her. It’s
also fun for baby, because when she is up at eye level, other adults notice and interact with her more. Your child will feel
more a part of your life when she is in her sling, and you will find yourself becoming more and more enchanted with this special
What to look for in a sling
1. Does it fit your height and build?
Most brands come in different sizes; choose one that is right for you (consider your shoulder width,
bust, and length of torso). A brand or size that is perfect for a friend may not be the best one for you.
2. How easy is it to adjust the sling?
Most slings have shoulder rings that allow for tightening and loosening by pulling excess fabric through.
The sling will be pulled snugly for an infant, and loosened over time as the baby develops. Test this in the store, because
a sling that cannot be easily adjusted will not be used as often as one that is better constructed.
3. Examine the padding.
Some people like slings with padding, while others do not. During my daughter’s first year, I
had great success with the New Native Baby Carrier, which is a completely unpadded sling (it also has no rings). However,
as she became older and heavier, I switched to a more traditional style. Try out various styles, and choose the one that works
best for you.